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is it neccessary to enable the i2s interface somehow via dtb or so to use it for a I2S DAC or should it be enaugh to connect it ? The wiki has 0 information about using the 40 pin header
Yes, you need to enable it with dtb and figure out which driver to use. The dtb configuration depends on whether you are using RK's 4.4 SDK or upstream as well.